A human always behaves according to his requirement.If he is required to eat, he starts behaving hungry.If he is required to sleep, he starts behaving sleepy.It is natural.Similarly it is natural for a person to have the life of corporation where he works to penetrate into his mind.Depending upon this, he judges many different situations from the mindset he has, which is acquired by working in a Corporation.
The management, the lifestyle, the communication and everything in the corporation.It is dependent upon the needs, since there are different kinds of people coming to work in it.There are protocols which manage all the communication.And each communication has a different protocol.
The reason why this post has been made is to enlighten that the employees of corporations tend to behave rather absurdly in their homes and apply the same protocols in their home ending up in separate ways (divorce).
We have to understand that our spouse is not our boss or our colleague or our client or our watchman or anyone in our corporation.But our spouse be it husband or wife, he/she is a special person in your life.And you should have a separate set of rules.Not the rules decided in the corporations.But it is the rules of mutual respect, love and transparency between the both wife and husband.
This is very small topic to have a glance, but it affects your life which you might not even know about it.You just cannot deal your wife as in if she is late, I will leave her at home and go.Or rather if she is busy in shopping you just cannot leave her at the shop then run away at home saying we have to be "punctual".
Or rather if she is slow in working at home.You just cannot scold her saying, why are you so slow ! I will marry another women.As if you are saying, if you cannot manage the work I have given.I will hire another personal to help you.No, this is your personal life.You should instead help her, appreciate to whatever she does.Rather than insulting her in front of your friends or family.
There are other examples as well.But the point is to make you realize that Islam teaches us to be more profound and have insight in whatever we do.Syeddina rasulullah salellahualaihiwasalam was a good learner, good teacher and a person who had a deep insight in everything.We should also follow the sunnah.We should also have deep insight in everything and decide taking everything into account.
The management, the lifestyle, the communication and everything in the corporation.It is dependent upon the needs, since there are different kinds of people coming to work in it.There are protocols which manage all the communication.And each communication has a different protocol.
The reason why this post has been made is to enlighten that the employees of corporations tend to behave rather absurdly in their homes and apply the same protocols in their home ending up in separate ways (divorce).
We have to understand that our spouse is not our boss or our colleague or our client or our watchman or anyone in our corporation.But our spouse be it husband or wife, he/she is a special person in your life.And you should have a separate set of rules.Not the rules decided in the corporations.But it is the rules of mutual respect, love and transparency between the both wife and husband.
This is very small topic to have a glance, but it affects your life which you might not even know about it.You just cannot deal your wife as in if she is late, I will leave her at home and go.Or rather if she is busy in shopping you just cannot leave her at the shop then run away at home saying we have to be "punctual".
Or rather if she is slow in working at home.You just cannot scold her saying, why are you so slow ! I will marry another women.As if you are saying, if you cannot manage the work I have given.I will hire another personal to help you.No, this is your personal life.You should instead help her, appreciate to whatever she does.Rather than insulting her in front of your friends or family.
There are other examples as well.But the point is to make you realize that Islam teaches us to be more profound and have insight in whatever we do.Syeddina rasulullah salellahualaihiwasalam was a good learner, good teacher and a person who had a deep insight in everything.We should also follow the sunnah.We should also have deep insight in everything and decide taking everything into account.
salaam aleykum,
ReplyDeletenice post ma sha' Allah w jazak'Allah khair.
Walekum assalam
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